BDSMRegister

A safe record of the consent behind every date.

Register, plan a date, and keep a mutual, timestamped record of what was agreed.

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Totally private, encrypted, and secure — your record, never searchable, never shared.

01

Register in minutes

Create your account and set up your profile — no ID verification, no unnecessary personal details.

02

Agree before you meet

Both of you confirm what's okay and what isn't, together, before anything happens.

03

A safety net you can trust

A timestamped, mutual record — including a quick webcam or audio check from each of you — kept private unless you ever need it.

Silence isn't a yes. Consent isn't a blank check — and it isn't a promise that it will happen. It only covers what was agreed, nobody is ever obligated to go through with it, and it can be withdrawn at any moment.

How it works

Every step is timestamped and needs confirmation from both of you — that's what turns it from a promise into evidence.

  1. 1

    Plan the date together

    Agree on when and with whom — just the two of you, before anything else.

  2. 2

    Set your do's and don'ts

    Agree on boundaries together — including hard and soft limits and safewords. Both of you confirm separately, so it's never just one person's word.

  3. 3

    Confirm consent, timestamped

    You confirm in the moment, not afterwards — proof that it was agreed before anything happened.

  4. 4

    A short webcam or audio check

    A brief moment on camera or with your voice where you both confirm again — evidence that it was really the two of you, at that moment.

  5. 5

    Locked in for both of you

    Once you both confirm, the record is locked and can't be altered. Later, it can only be revoked — never deleted or rewritten.

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